Polite, persuasive workplace conversations: Small talk, requests and respectful pushback

A ready-made course you customise for your organisation, with a live session deck and two surveys. You only add the 5 details that are specific to your organisation.

Length
35 min
Lessons
6 lessons
Frequency
At onboarding for international teams
Last reviewed
21 Oct 2026
Small talk that builds trust
What would you do?

A colleague says they were away

Try it: this is one of 16 interactive activities in the course.

What's included

Three pieces that work together

Copy once, get everything. Learners prepare on their own, you answer questions live, and the surveys tell you what stuck.

Self-paced course

Short lessons with real workplace scenarios, not walls of text.

  • 6 lessons, about 35 minutes
  • Scenario, sorting activity, process, flashcards and quizzes

Live session deck

An AhaSlides presentation to run after the course, in person or online.

  • 10 slides
  • Poll, quiz, word cloud, scale slides
  • A closing slide for your contacts

Two surveys

Find out what landed, and whether people use it on the job.

  • Post-course feedback, about 2 minutes
  • 30-day check-in
  • Anonymous by default
  • Results feed your next refresher

Learning objectives

At the end of this course, learners can

Each objective and the lesson that covers it.

IDObjectiveSourceWhere it's covered
TO 212.0Achieve ≥ 80% on the final assessment-Whole course
SO 212.1Compare blunt, polite and over-polite phrasing of the same requestCEFR Companion Volume (2020) pragmatic scales [source: report anchor, unverified]Whole course
SO 212.2Use small talk to build trustBusiness communication skill (none)Whole course
SO 212.3Ask for help and clarify without losing faceBusiness communication skill (none)Whole course
SO 212.4Disagree and say no politely with softening languageBest practiceWhole course
SO 212.5Respond calmly to a mistake or a complaintBest practice; employer's customer-care policyWhole course

Your part: what a template can't do for you

  • Your workplace details: fill in the 5 highlighted fields so the course describes your own policies, contacts and locations.
  • Records: record completion in your own LMS or record system.

Course outline

6 lessons, about 35 minutes

Minutes per lesson are an estimate, shared out by page count.

ContentInteractiveVideoYou customise
1

One email, three tones: which one gets a yes?

3 pages

8 min
Before you beginNoteList
Alder Hotels head officeTextImage
Rate the toneSorting activityQuiz
2

Small talk that builds trust

2 pages

5 min
StartersFlashcards
Keep it goingScenarioQuiz
3

Asking for help and clarifying without losing face

2 pages

5 min
Useful phrasesAccordion
Choose the replySorting activityQuiz
4

Disagreeing and saying no politely

2 pages

5 min
Soften itTabsNote
Try itScenarioQuiz
5

Handling mistakes, misunderstandings and complaints

2 pages

5 min
Three stepsProcess
ComplaintScenarioQuiz
6

Practice scenarios and a final assessment

3 pages

7 min
Pairs practiseChecklist
Next stepsProcessYour infoNote
PracticeQuizKey factNoteButtonYour info

Live deck and surveys

10 slides to run live, two surveys to close the loop

Pink slides are interactive. Both surveys are anonymous; pink questions are written for this course.

ContentTitle, agenda, "one request, three tones
Word cloudOne phrase that sounds friendly to you
PollHow easy is it to disagree with a manager in English?
Content · customiseThree softening moves {{COMPANY_STYLE_GUIDE_LINK}}
QuizWhich request is the most polite? ("Could you possibly send it by Friday?" ✔ · "Send it Friday." · "You must send it Friday." · "Friday. Send.")
QuizA client complains. Your first step is to… (Listen ✔ · Explain at length · Blame someone · Offer a gift)
PollWhich situation will you try first?
ScaleHow comfortable are you disagreeing politely?
Open-ended / Q&AOne situation you find hard
Content · customiseClosing {{LD_CONTACT}}, {{SURVEY_2_URL}}, {{COURSE_URL}}
Post-course feedback: 11 questions, about 2 min
  1. Overall rating 5 stars
  2. Relevant, realistic, right length, helpful activities agree/disagree grid
  3. What was most useful? multi-select
  4. Confidence before this course, and now 1-5 scale
  5. Which part is still unclear? multiple choice
  6. How comfortable are you now disagreeing politely? 1-5 scale
  7. Which situation will you try first? open text
  8. I feel able to say no or disagree at work without worrying. 1-5 scale
  9. One thing we should change or add open text
  10. Would you recommend this course? NPS
30-day check-in
  1. Have you used what you learned since the course? multiple choice
  2. How confident are you today? Compare with day 1 1-5 scale
  3. Do you know where to find the practice phrases? yes / no / not sure
  4. A moment where the training helped, or where you weren't sure open text
  5. Which topics should the next refresher focus on? ranking

Results show whether people use the training on the job, not just whether they finished it.

Make it yours

5 fields to fill in, and you're ready

Everything else is done. These are the details only your organisation knows; each one is highlighted inside the course.

  • Ld contact{{LD_CONTACT}}
  • Company style guide link{{COMPANY_STYLE_GUIDE_LINK}}
  • LMS or record system{{LMS_OR_RECORD_SYSTEM}}
  • Survey 2 URL{{SURVEY_2_URL}}
  • Course URL{{COURSE_URL}}

FAQ

Common questions

Can I run polite, persuasive workplace conversations: Small talk, requests and respectful pushback training online?

Yes. The course is self-paced and online, and the live deck lets you add a live session in the room or online.

How often is this training needed?

At onboarding for international teams, as a monthly conversation lab, and before a hybrid team starts working together.

Who needs this training?

Non-native English speakers who work with colleagues, clients or managers (B1 to C1), including remote and hybrid teams; run by L&D with HR and team leads.

What records should I keep?

Record completion in your own LMS or record system, so you can show who finished the course and when.

Can I edit the content?

Yes, everything. Change the wording, swap scenarios for ones from your workplace, add your logo, or remove parts that don't apply.

Ready to run it?

Open the live deck to see how the session runs alongside the course and both surveys.